What do you do when someone falls in love with you, and you don’t want to stop it?
You feel that they like you; they tell you that they do, and you can’t help but think about their smile throughout the day. They have the same sense of humor as you, they like a lot of the same things you do. They love their family, they work hard, and they’re respectful and fun. They like talking to you as much as you like talking to them.
You slowly realize that you’re hooked; you’re addicted to how they make you feel. The happiness rolls over you like a wave in the warm summer ocean. This person comes out of no where. The person compares their life to you and says things like “until you happened”. The person tells you that they’d rather be stuck talking to you over being stuck doing anything else. The feelings blind side you, and come along when you thought you didn’t want anyone, when you never expected to have a person in your life that wonderful.
The butterflies are inevitable. The feelings are mutual. Normally this would progress into dinner dates, and a few cuddle sessions on the couch with movies. Then soon they ask you to be in a relationship with them. It becomes Facebook official, because in this day and age, it’s not official until its “Facebook official”. Family dinners would start every so often, meeting “the boys”, going out together, Wal-Mart trips, weekend spend the night a thons.
Now that last paragraph would be under normal circumstances, when you live relatively close to each other. When it would actually be a high possibility to fall in love with them too. When it would be okay, and actually magical to be with them.
The kicker is, one person in the equation is leaving. Moving over 900 miles away, to a place that makes them happy.
Now let me ask you the question again, what do you do when you feel someone is falling in love with you, and you don’t want to stop it?
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